Address:

Bellingham, WA 98225

Phone:

(360) 676-0765

Email:

journeys@
nas.com

Website:

www.barbaragilday.com

Operating Hours:

please call for an appointment

Memberships:

BA Psychology,

Master of Divinity,

Ordained Unitarian Universalist Minister

Chaplain Specialist, CAPPE.,

Registered Counselor,

Heart Centered Therapy, Cert.

Awards:

Toastmasters International Area Competition Winner

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 HEART CENTERED THERAPY     

Healing Emotional Wounds with the Mind, Body and Spirit   

 Mihaly Csikszentmihaly:   

May I be in peace.
May my heart remain open.
May I awaken to the light which is my true nature.
May I be healed.
May I be a source of healing for all beings.

 

   In this century, we are becoming global travelers and with the expansion of our borders have come the benefits of a variety of healing modalities. 

  Heart Centered Therapy is one of the beneficiaries of the fusion of Eastern philosophy – we are all one, worthy of respect, honor, and love; of Western philosophy – the mind can resolve our problems; and of Indigenous beliefs – grounded in the body and its connection to the earth and the Spirit. 

  As we look at our “problems”, HCT assumes only love. The client is encouraged to use imagery and feelings, grounded in the body, to integrate disparate voices within, and come to peace and wholeness. In Heart Centered Therapy Sessions, clients will typically acquire insight into an emotion that has been troubling- for example, anger, or feelings of abandonment.  They will find a time in their childhood where that emotion resulted from a significant event.  By taking their adult wisdom and spiritual awareness to the situation, with coaching from the therapist, they “re-story” the problematic situation, resulting in a reclaiming of power and sense of wholeness, which translates to shifts in current day feelings and behaviors.

 In the process of the internal journey – the client is encouraged to “assume only love” – to regard all emotions with respect, in order to glean their wisdom and find the pathway to integration. The client comes to see that rather than being separate and unlovable – beliefs that hold us in pain and isolation – s/he is united within, and beloved. Finding love, courage and vision within, s/he then is able to see and experience the love outside.

 The beliefs and judgments that have held us in pain and separation are presented to the heart. The heart intelligence naturally leads out of the judgment- a quality of mind- and into compassion and higher understanding. The false structures of the mind can then reorganize and come into alignment with pure thought and emotion.

 When we lose our ability to stay in our hearts, our bodies, and to recognize truth, we become prone to problems with abandonment, self worth and trust. We consequently become vulnerable and susceptible to physical, and spiritual diseases.

Masterful dialogue techniques employed lovingly in Heart Centered Therapy, include step-by-step guidelines that identify and transform the emotional component of disease in the body, the related trauma, as well as the ancestral patterns that have sustained wounding within the immediate family and the family lineage. Inside this gentle and respectful process is a very direct, straightforward approach that pierces straight to the core of an issue-   and it does it by assuming only love. As core issues and old stories are healed, completed and rewritten, so as to reclaim the power, courage, love and compassion of the individual, current behaviors shift naturally to more balance, within the context of respectful and honoring relationships.  

Comments from Clients:    

Hi Barbara- I honestly believe our time together was of great value -it was exactly what I needed to progress. You have a very kind and caring demeanor that is quite effective. Your office is comfortable and serene. Your rates are reasonable. There is nothing I would change.  I will not hesitate to sing your praises.                          R.S. Health Administrator 
 
I am doing 100 percent better. My severe PMS moods have become mild to nonexistent! Thank you so much. I was skeptical about HCT before trying it, but now I’m convinced it helped greatly. I haven’t had a really difficult day in over 2 months. It really is remarkable, what you taught me about “filters coming off” and managing those moods differently. WOW! I wish I’d had your help back when they started some 10 years ago.    L.W.  Editor
 
This process really helped me go deeper around an issue I have been carrying with me all of my life. The beautiful imagery this process helps create, is a wonderfully gentle way to address these deeper issues. I was able to experience my emotions without the intensity that could create fear and a protective reaction of "putting the walls back up." I was able to stay with you as you lovingly led me to deeper insights and transformation.
G.H,. Psychologist   
I am experiencing such relief from those"unspoken" voices that have been churning around for years.You helped me name and give personality to the fear that has been holding me back from taking action. Heart centered therapy is definitely a short cut to eliminating confusion in your capable hands.   K. I., Administrator
Looking back at it now, a month later, it seems to have been at once a healing and an opening of my heart. I feel able to be more free and to let deeper self come forth without fear. Since the healing, an opening to work on X has come my way. I feel ready for this challenge with a spontaneous eagerness, not apprehension nor determination. R. R., Pastor
After my time with you, I felt at peace. Since then, I seem to be more confident and happy. Most especially, I feel a deeper connection with God and the realization of His mighty power. H.W., Social worker
I feel like I've let go of the gray colored glasses and put on beautiful colored, sunny ones. Life looked different even as I drove home last night. This morning is a beautiful day and I'm seeing it as an opportunity to enjoy my life. Thank you, my dear, for last evening’s session. I think it worked.     D. T., Retiree
I have felt so much better since doing the grief work with you. Our work together centered around my relationship with x, which has long been troubled. Since working with you, I have been able to spend time with her without feelings of resentment and competition coloring our relationship. I am happy to be free of those feelings. Thank you. S.B. Writer